Did you feel sure that your ex would have come back to you by now? Did you think that this was just another spat and that they would come to their senses and change their mind by now and that you would be back together? It's not happening, is it? Now you're a wee bit freaked out that you may have lost your ex forever and you have no idea of what to do to get them back.
Maybe you have already tried some of the more logical approaches to getting your ex back. Maybe you thought that talking to your ex, agreeing with their reason for breaking up with you and promising to change would help but they're not having it. Maybe you've taken the well meaning advice of friends or family and still your ex is non-plussed about the idea of getting back together. You feel like you've been slapped in the face and you're shocked and stunned at the prospect of actually living your life without the one that you love.
If you truly want to win your ex back you are just going to have to play it cool for a while. You might be very emotionally distraught and upset but your goal remains to get back together with your ex. But the more you push and the more you try to change your ex's mind the worse things are going to get.
Just back off for a bit. Circle back and regroup for a moment here. This will change the relationship dynamic almost immediately and will diffuse the situation or, if nothing else, it will change how your ex views you. If nothing else, backing off and playing it cool will keep you from doing further damage to your relationship and your chances of winning your ex back. If you are not in your ex's face or pestering them then and thus driving them away or, even worse, into the arms of a new mate.
You need to step back and understand a few things about your relationship and why all of this is going on. You need to take an honest look at how you have been behaving and how it is affecting your ex. What the two of you are going through is very common and the more you push your ex the more they are going to resist and that simply isn't going to help you to get your ex back.
Your heart and your head are in turmoil right now. The person that you loved the most and who loved you the most has rejected you. It just doesn't make sense, does it? How do you get that love back that was once so strong? Know in your heart that how your ex is acting is not their true feelings and that you can uncover the love that still lies there for you. All of this is only for a short while in the scheme of things and if you want to win your ex back you really can.
It might be difficult for you to believe me but by simply backing off you will improve your chances of winning your ex back while slashing the amount of time it is going to take to get them back. You will be trying to change how your ex looks at you and thinks about you and a little time apart with no influence from you can allow time to wash away part of that bad perception. Meanwhile, you can begin to focus on yourself and changing some things to when it does come time to see your ex again they will fall for you again.
Now, don't just sit around the house worrying about if you are going to be able to win your ex back. Know in your heart that you can pull this off. Know without a doubt that you can indeed win your ex back. But it is time to start living again. When the time does come to get back in touch with your ex you want them to remember the happy person that they once loved, right? You want them to forget about how you begged them to stay with you and how you cried. So get out there, start living life. It is time to get you back so you have something to give when the time comes to contact them and win your ex back for good!
Maybe you have already tried some of the more logical approaches to getting your ex back. Maybe you thought that talking to your ex, agreeing with their reason for breaking up with you and promising to change would help but they're not having it. Maybe you've taken the well meaning advice of friends or family and still your ex is non-plussed about the idea of getting back together. You feel like you've been slapped in the face and you're shocked and stunned at the prospect of actually living your life without the one that you love.
If you truly want to win your ex back you are just going to have to play it cool for a while. You might be very emotionally distraught and upset but your goal remains to get back together with your ex. But the more you push and the more you try to change your ex's mind the worse things are going to get.
Just back off for a bit. Circle back and regroup for a moment here. This will change the relationship dynamic almost immediately and will diffuse the situation or, if nothing else, it will change how your ex views you. If nothing else, backing off and playing it cool will keep you from doing further damage to your relationship and your chances of winning your ex back. If you are not in your ex's face or pestering them then and thus driving them away or, even worse, into the arms of a new mate.
You need to step back and understand a few things about your relationship and why all of this is going on. You need to take an honest look at how you have been behaving and how it is affecting your ex. What the two of you are going through is very common and the more you push your ex the more they are going to resist and that simply isn't going to help you to get your ex back.
Your heart and your head are in turmoil right now. The person that you loved the most and who loved you the most has rejected you. It just doesn't make sense, does it? How do you get that love back that was once so strong? Know in your heart that how your ex is acting is not their true feelings and that you can uncover the love that still lies there for you. All of this is only for a short while in the scheme of things and if you want to win your ex back you really can.
It might be difficult for you to believe me but by simply backing off you will improve your chances of winning your ex back while slashing the amount of time it is going to take to get them back. You will be trying to change how your ex looks at you and thinks about you and a little time apart with no influence from you can allow time to wash away part of that bad perception. Meanwhile, you can begin to focus on yourself and changing some things to when it does come time to see your ex again they will fall for you again.
Now, don't just sit around the house worrying about if you are going to be able to win your ex back. Know in your heart that you can pull this off. Know without a doubt that you can indeed win your ex back. But it is time to start living again. When the time does come to get back in touch with your ex you want them to remember the happy person that they once loved, right? You want them to forget about how you begged them to stay with you and how you cried. So get out there, start living life. It is time to get you back so you have something to give when the time comes to contact them and win your ex back for good!
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