Females are emotion based creatures and one of men's greatest enigmas in life. Women and men can drive each other mad on occasions but they have a tough time getting by without the other. For who knows what reason, your other half is not happy, there's a few things you can do to help her. Life and daily stress can have an impact on anybody. Maybe the realities of life,work, school, stress, bills, and raising children (and the list keeps growing) is taking an emotional toll on her.
When life gets nerve wracking and upsetting, your wife can feel anything except the type of woman she would like to be--an attractive, radiant and lovely wife. And when your wife begins to feel this way, she may not express it, but she would like to feel attractive, appreciated, loved and valued.
Although it is no one's responsibility but your wife's to feel good about herself, as a husband, you can significantly help her feel a little bit better. The fact that you detected that your wife isn't happy and you want to make her feel better says that you love her a lot.
What your better half needs now is your everlasting support and love. Through your words, let her know how much you care for her, love her and how she is the most significant person in your life. Also remember that actions speak a lot louder than words so be sure to make your actions be as impeccable as your words. I am not going to tell you exactly what you need to do because not all spousal relationships are same and "one size fits everybody" information will not help you.
What you want actually do is be aware of your wife's feelings. You may need to sit with her and ask her what is bothering her and hear her words. Don't try to fix her problems for her. Men are more likely to want to discover a solution to an issue at that moment and where as with women, they just need to be listened to. Your spouse will appreciate that you even realized that something was troubling her and that you allowed her to vent her feelings (women love talking about their feelings).
If you did something to upset her, what she needs from you is to know you're happy to do anything to mend your marriage. If you brush off her feelings or don't follow through on your words, you are not showing her your support and love. Again, be impeccable with your actions and words.
A couple who truly cares for each other's general contentment and happiness are much more likely to beat those "bumps in the road." Being aware of her feelings (and not resisting them) will help you be the kind of man she needs right now... A loving, caring and supportive husband.
When life gets nerve wracking and upsetting, your wife can feel anything except the type of woman she would like to be--an attractive, radiant and lovely wife. And when your wife begins to feel this way, she may not express it, but she would like to feel attractive, appreciated, loved and valued.
Although it is no one's responsibility but your wife's to feel good about herself, as a husband, you can significantly help her feel a little bit better. The fact that you detected that your wife isn't happy and you want to make her feel better says that you love her a lot.
What your better half needs now is your everlasting support and love. Through your words, let her know how much you care for her, love her and how she is the most significant person in your life. Also remember that actions speak a lot louder than words so be sure to make your actions be as impeccable as your words. I am not going to tell you exactly what you need to do because not all spousal relationships are same and "one size fits everybody" information will not help you.
What you want actually do is be aware of your wife's feelings. You may need to sit with her and ask her what is bothering her and hear her words. Don't try to fix her problems for her. Men are more likely to want to discover a solution to an issue at that moment and where as with women, they just need to be listened to. Your spouse will appreciate that you even realized that something was troubling her and that you allowed her to vent her feelings (women love talking about their feelings).
If you did something to upset her, what she needs from you is to know you're happy to do anything to mend your marriage. If you brush off her feelings or don't follow through on your words, you are not showing her your support and love. Again, be impeccable with your actions and words.
A couple who truly cares for each other's general contentment and happiness are much more likely to beat those "bumps in the road." Being aware of her feelings (and not resisting them) will help you be the kind of man she needs right now... A loving, caring and supportive husband.
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