Wednesday, September 19, 2012

The Ex2 System And Do You Have Anything To Be Ashamed Of

By Eric Hastings


Is Matt Huston's book really anything to get excited about? Can these methods really help you or will using the Ex2 System only turn things from bad to worse in your relationship? Are you just acting out of frustration and will what you've been doing to try to get your girlfriend or wife to change her mind pay off eventually?

Look, I know that you really do care about your girlfriend and you don't want to shoot yourself in the foot when the moment of truth comes to get your girlfriend back. I've been there. I've been in your exact same position. I almost lost the woman of my dreams and I did pick up Matt Huston's Ex2 System because nothing I was doing was working. For me, it was a last ditch effort to get her back. She was with someone else and I knew I had to act fast. I had nothing to lose and everything to gain so I gave the Ex2 System a shot and I'm glad that I did. But you have to make that decision for yourself.

I remember what it was like to be with someone that knew my every move before I even did. I was freaking out that the methods in the Ex2 System would backfire on me and she would see that I was pushing her emotional hot buttons. I was afraid that one of her girlfriends would show her that I was playing a game with her to try to get her back or that she would see through me. But the methods inside the Ex2 System seemed so powerful that even though she resisted, these methods were no match for her even though she is strong willed and pretty intelligent.

The Ex2 System is based upon you doing things and saying things that are designed to push your ex's emotional hot buttons. I really do think that even if she was given a copy of this book and told what I was doing it wouldn't have made much of a difference. It was like telling her not to buy a pair of shoes worth two hundred dollars when they were on sale for twenty-five bucks. She was helpless but to react because it is a part of what makes her a woman to react to these psychological triggers in such a way. All you have to do is follow the step by step plan and do exactly what it says without deviating. While it was tempting at times to want to go back to being the guy that I once was and doing what I had been doing to try to win her over, I resisted that temptation and you should too.

I did struggle for some time with the ethical nature of using the Ex2 System. After all, I was never much of a pickup artist or someone to play games or use lame pickup lines. I didn't have to do stuff like that when my girlfriend first fell for me. I didn't think that I needed stuff like that to get her back at first. Then I got to a point where I had to do something. What I was doing wasn't working. I was losing her and with every passing day things were getting worse. She was with another guy, after all. So, I told my ego to take a hike and picked up the Ex2 System.

One way of looking at it is that if you had a job to accomplish and your entire future depended upon it, would you look for help from someone that had actually done what you hope to accomplish? If you had to put an engine back together and you needed to do it right, you would get a book written by the guy that was the best at rebuilding engines. That is basically what the Ex2 System is like. It's a book by the guy that is the best at putting relationships back together.

In addition, women read relationship books all the time. Popular womans magazines are filled with articles on how to make your relationship more passionate and how to get your partner to love you more. Matt Huston's Ex2 System and the Train Your Girlfriend Manual are no different. They're just written for guys. Both of these books tell you how to understand your girlfriend and how to get what you need out of your relationship. So, don't worry about her ever giving you a hard time about using the methods inside the Ex2 System.




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