Getting him back can have its ups and downs. You will have moments when you are so down that you can barely take it anymore. It feels like every day that nothing ever changes and it can be easy to give up hope. That is what makes it so exciting when you begin to see changes in your ex. This is why whenever you start to feel that twinkle of hope in your heart again, I encourage you to grab hold of it and run with it!
While you might feel at times that you're making something out of nothing, soon you will know without a doubt that things are starting to happen. It could be a change in his attitude towards you that only you might recognize when you are together or his tone of voice might be gentler with you than it was. There will be little clues that tell you that things are changing in his mind and his attitude towards you is softening.
You might be afraid of getting hurt or you might have your doubts at times but you know when someone is attracted to you. You know your ex almost well enough to be able to read his thoughts and you are always on the lookout for signs that things are improving or that he is thinking about you. It might just be a look in his eye but you know that look speaks volumes and you would rather that he looked at you that special way than anything else in the world. It could be a weird text message that most people would think means nothing or it could be an incidental touch on your arm when you weren't expecting it. Everything starts from somewhere and your ex coming back to you will start with small signs of his attention and affection.
While it might be very tempting to go crazy and want to seal the deal as quickly as possible, this is a delicate time. If you revert back to your old ways and try to push him or convince him to get back together you're going to ruin everything. Instead, enjoy this feeling and these moments when you feel like he's coming back to you. Really feel that joy and remain cool, calm, happy and optimistic about your chances of getting him back.
Try not to let doubt creep in even if he retreats or if things go back to how they were before. Keep on being positive about your ability to win him over and be glad that you had that moment when you could tell that the passion was not gone and that there really was something there. Be patient with yourself and with him and think about how it's going to feel when he finally does break down. Know in your heart that getting him back isn't going to be that difficult and that in time you will hear those words that you long to hear as he falls in love with you all over again.
While you might feel at times that you're making something out of nothing, soon you will know without a doubt that things are starting to happen. It could be a change in his attitude towards you that only you might recognize when you are together or his tone of voice might be gentler with you than it was. There will be little clues that tell you that things are changing in his mind and his attitude towards you is softening.
You might be afraid of getting hurt or you might have your doubts at times but you know when someone is attracted to you. You know your ex almost well enough to be able to read his thoughts and you are always on the lookout for signs that things are improving or that he is thinking about you. It might just be a look in his eye but you know that look speaks volumes and you would rather that he looked at you that special way than anything else in the world. It could be a weird text message that most people would think means nothing or it could be an incidental touch on your arm when you weren't expecting it. Everything starts from somewhere and your ex coming back to you will start with small signs of his attention and affection.
While it might be very tempting to go crazy and want to seal the deal as quickly as possible, this is a delicate time. If you revert back to your old ways and try to push him or convince him to get back together you're going to ruin everything. Instead, enjoy this feeling and these moments when you feel like he's coming back to you. Really feel that joy and remain cool, calm, happy and optimistic about your chances of getting him back.
Try not to let doubt creep in even if he retreats or if things go back to how they were before. Keep on being positive about your ability to win him over and be glad that you had that moment when you could tell that the passion was not gone and that there really was something there. Be patient with yourself and with him and think about how it's going to feel when he finally does break down. Know in your heart that getting him back isn't going to be that difficult and that in time you will hear those words that you long to hear as he falls in love with you all over again.
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