You may want to understand how to win your man back once the love and attraction is gone. These 4 simple steps will help you fan the flames that brought you and your ex together - even if he may already be dating someone else.
The first step is to become a person he can trust. Be around him as much as humanly possible, make him aware that you're available when he has to get something off his chest. Don't be judgmental, do be open-minded - that's the key. Letting your ex know that he can open up and share his feelings and not be judged or made to feel worse when he shares his thoughts with you. Gaining true intimacy is supreme to bringing back your man.
Being open-minded and understanding is the second step, but do not put yourself in the position of being a pushover, don't let him use you for a doormat. You definitely don't really want to be viewed as a person to be exploited. That's what will happen if you seem overly eager. Make it a point to let him know how you're feeling about things, have some opinions. Don't come across as being harsh, but do let him know that you have ideas of your own, that you have emotions. Don't try and bend his thoughts and opinions to suit you, that's being judgmental. Know the difference between sharing your thoughts and being judgmental.
Remind him of the great times - that is your third crucial move. Winning a man back is easier if you remind him from time to time about the great times. Keeping those pleasant memories under consideration will help him see why he liked you so much in the first place. One thing you completely don't want to do is bring up unpleasant past times, that might only throw off your plans to get him back.
Letting him know how you're feeling about him should be your 4th move. Do not be too effusive, too fast. Make sure he's definitely beginning to like you again prior to getting all gushy. The first three steps, if done properly , should be a simple method to win back his heart so you can go on to step 4.
You'll know you've hit a home run if he starts flirting again, or checking you out when you are not looking. Often a man will need a little help in this stage of the relationship, he would feel a little chagrined for ever leaving you in the first place. Help him out, help him save face. That's a crucial way to win a man back. Tell him, when the time is right, that you two make a great couple and it might be worth to try it again.
Take things slowly, be persistent, and you will win your man back. Don't think your efforts are for nothing, you have been planting enough positively charged thoughts in his head and he may come to think getting together again was his idea.
What if you just can't get the love back in your marriage? I know how hard it can be to try and make your spouse understand just how special your love is, but if you want to really make your relationship sing again, you'll need to learn a different strategy in saving your relationship.
The first step is to become a person he can trust. Be around him as much as humanly possible, make him aware that you're available when he has to get something off his chest. Don't be judgmental, do be open-minded - that's the key. Letting your ex know that he can open up and share his feelings and not be judged or made to feel worse when he shares his thoughts with you. Gaining true intimacy is supreme to bringing back your man.
Being open-minded and understanding is the second step, but do not put yourself in the position of being a pushover, don't let him use you for a doormat. You definitely don't really want to be viewed as a person to be exploited. That's what will happen if you seem overly eager. Make it a point to let him know how you're feeling about things, have some opinions. Don't come across as being harsh, but do let him know that you have ideas of your own, that you have emotions. Don't try and bend his thoughts and opinions to suit you, that's being judgmental. Know the difference between sharing your thoughts and being judgmental.
Remind him of the great times - that is your third crucial move. Winning a man back is easier if you remind him from time to time about the great times. Keeping those pleasant memories under consideration will help him see why he liked you so much in the first place. One thing you completely don't want to do is bring up unpleasant past times, that might only throw off your plans to get him back.
Letting him know how you're feeling about him should be your 4th move. Do not be too effusive, too fast. Make sure he's definitely beginning to like you again prior to getting all gushy. The first three steps, if done properly , should be a simple method to win back his heart so you can go on to step 4.
You'll know you've hit a home run if he starts flirting again, or checking you out when you are not looking. Often a man will need a little help in this stage of the relationship, he would feel a little chagrined for ever leaving you in the first place. Help him out, help him save face. That's a crucial way to win a man back. Tell him, when the time is right, that you two make a great couple and it might be worth to try it again.
Take things slowly, be persistent, and you will win your man back. Don't think your efforts are for nothing, you have been planting enough positively charged thoughts in his head and he may come to think getting together again was his idea.
What if you just can't get the love back in your marriage? I know how hard it can be to try and make your spouse understand just how special your love is, but if you want to really make your relationship sing again, you'll need to learn a different strategy in saving your relationship.
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