Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Win Him Back While Keeping Your Self Confidence Intact

By Alexandra Peterson


Knowing how to win him back after a breakup can be a difficult task. You might not know it but you are a little handicapped when it comes to knowing how to win him back for several reasons. My goal though, it to help you through this and get you back on track. It is my personal mantra that there simply should not be such a thing as unrequited love, which mean that if you love your ex, he should love you back the same if not more. So, I am going to help you and show you how to win him back, ok?

You really are at a lot more of a disadvantage right now than you might possible comprehend. I know that your man is important to you and that is exactly why you are at such a disadvantage. You are freaking out wondering if you're going to be able to get him back. You are scared that if you do the wrong thing or say the wrong thing that the door to his heart will be closed forever, if it isn't already closed and you don't want to think about that at all. There is so much stress in your life right now that you probably do not realize it and if I could remove that stress there is a pretty good chance that you would intuitively know what to say and do all on your own to win him back.

There is actually a very good chance that once you don't feel so stressed that you will understand what you need to do to get him back. The thrill of getting him back will return and falling in love all over again will wash over you like it did when you first fell in love with your man. The more pressure you put on yourself, the more frightening this whole process becomes. Once you loosen up though, you might find that getting your ex back isn't as scary as you once thought and winning him back can be easy and enjoyable.

The fact is that right now if I told you exactly what you needed to do to change his mind about your breakup, you would refuse to do it. If I gave you the words to speak and how to act, you would stubbornly tell me that you want to try it your way instead. This is just the way this stuff works. You are too afraid that what I have to share wouldn't work or that it would somehow make matters worse. Your fear is feeding this self preservation instinct that tells you to be careful. Perhaps too careful, if that makes sense to you.

Your confidence will play a big role in both knowing how to win him back and having the courage to do what is necessary to get him back. Right now, your confidence in yourself and your relationship has probably taken a big blow. You aren't feeling too great about yourself and your chances of getting him back. This is why it might be necessary to sort of go into hiding for a bit.

Regain your self confidence and know ahead of time how to win him back before you start trying everyting under the sun to try to get him to change his mind and come back to you. You may be frantic and upset and emotional right now and this is all normal but if you truly hope to find any success in getting back together with your boyfriend or husband you will need to have a level head, know how to win him back before you do anything and have the confidence in yourself and in your love for him that this is going to work. A lack of planning is more like planning for failure if you are just trying everything that you can think of to try to get him back.

Above all else, the best thing that you can do to improve your chances of getting your ex back is to stop for a short while and get yourself together. Become more like the woman he fell in love with. Regain that playful flirtiness and find that girl that was fun to be around before you contact him again. After all, people like to be around people that are happy as opposed to people that are sad, upset and emotional, wouldn't you agree?

Give yourself some alone time to fall back and group. Get your confidence back and get back to being that happy person that he fell in love with and knowing how to win him back will begin to come to you. Of course, a few of the other tips and tricks that I have for you will surely help so don't hesitate to take my lead and follow in the same footsteps that I took to get my ex back. I'll show you exactly how to win him back if you are game.




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Monday, March 26, 2012

Can Emotional Hot Buttons Help Or Hurt Your Chances Of Getting Him Back?

By Katherine M Paris


If you've been looking at Matt Huston's Get Him Back Forever you might already know that one of the methods that you will get is using emotional hot buttons to get him back forever. For me, this seemed like a great idea at first. Targetting my boyfriend's heart and emotions using emotional hot buttons to get him back forever just seemed like the perfect solution. But what is involved in using emotional hot buttons to get him back forever and are these methods really effective? After all, most men often seem to lack a lot of emotion or passion in their life and will male psychology and emotional hot buttons work if you have a boyfriend that seems cold and uncaring right now?

While the use of emotional hot buttons was what made the difference for me when it came to turning things around between me and my boyfriend, you want to know for sure if they will work for you. After all, you have probably noticed that things have gone from bad to worse since your breakup and your ex might be reluctant to talk to you if he is in touch with you at all. In spite of this fact, using these methods might actually be the way to go for you if you are hoping to win him back.

But you might doubt that this stuff will work for you. After all, what kind of success can you hope for if your boyfriend isn't talking to you and how do you push the emotional hot buttons of someone that won't see you. You have tried many things so far, all without much success. Maybe there is even another woman involved who is poisoning his mind against you. So, what kind of chance do you think you might have in moving him emotionally if you don't have his ear and he acts like he could care less about you?

If you are anything like I was, you just wish that there was a way to be able to talk to him rationally at this point. Just the obstacle of getting back in regular contact with him would be wonderful but you don't know if you can handle the rejection that you have been getting lately. You also must know logically that every time you contact him and you get a negative response that you are making it more difficult to get him back. You are ingraining those negative thoughts that he has about you so you need a way to ingrain positive thoughts in his mind about you without it appearing that you are doing anything to try to get him back because he is so defensive about your desire to get back together. This is where using emotional hot buttons and male psychology really shines since it will appear that you're not doing anything at all to try to get him back.

What you need to understand is that men are actually emotional by nature. It is just that their emotions are so surpressed that they do not realize that they make decisions based upon emotions. They cover them over with a logical explanation, but still, you have to be clever when dealing with a man and especially your boyfriend if you hope to use these methods to get him back. Anything that makes it apparent that you are trying to get him back will send up a red flag and turn him off to you even more. But in the end, targeting his emotions are the most direct way to get him to change his mind and come back to you without the chance of losing him again.

By targeting his emotional hot buttons you will be slipping in under the radar. It is almost like a knee jerk reaction that he will have no control over and even if he did sort of figure out that you were up to something he would be helpless to do much about it. Just think of times when you were with your boyfriend and he had cars cutting him off left and right. He would lose his mind or a pleasant drive would turn into frustration for him. Even guys that have their emotions under control loose their cool when their emotional hot buttons are pushed. The buttons that you are going to push are almost hard wired into every man and they are part of what makes him a man and they will make him want you back.

If you wonder why using emotional hot buttons to get him back works so well, it is the psychological aspect of the methods inside Get Him Back Forever. It is the fact that you will be pushing on emotions that are peculiar just to men and found just in male psychology that make these methods so powerful. Even guys that claim to be so in control of themselves or that are proud of the fact that they are not emotional in nature are not immune to these instinctual aspects of Get Him Back Forever.

It is probably the stealthy nature of using emotional hot buttons that make them so effective though. It is like sneaking behind enemy lines and planting a time delayed bomb in his mind. You could even deny that you want him back and further enhance the power of using emotional hot buttons without any fear that he will take this information to heart and move on without you. What you will be doing is gently yet powerful changing how your boyfriend thinks about you and you will take control of your relationship from here on out.

You should know that all of this information should not be taken lightly. If you just aren't sure if you want to get back together with your ex or if you are just jealous because he is with someone else then you should just move on. Using these methods will make him attached to you very deeply. These methods are only to be used if you are sure that you want to continue your relationship with him and that you are not just trying to get him back so you can break his heart the same way that he broke yours. You might not get him back as quickly as you might like, but then again, if he came back yesterday it probably wouldn't be quick enough. But know that without you knowing it, these methods will be working and he is slowly being pushed towards the edge where he will fall and fall hard. And when he falls he will be falling for you.




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Sunday, March 25, 2012

How to Spice up your Relationship

By Xander Davenport


Whether you are married or still in the boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, it is very important that continually strive to keep your relationship fun and exciting. Why? That enthusiasm and additional effort keeps the love growing and developing. And how can you do that? Always bring the part of surprise.

Agree with your companion to plan a secret date. Take turns in planning and setting your surprise date. It does not have to be luxurious all of the time. A straightforward motion picture date or bowling or perhaps a scavenger hunt kind of surprise can surely thrill and delight your better half.

By watching this activity, you both think of paths to make each other happy and exert effort to plan surprises. This also shows how much you value one another and the relationship. You think about the things your companion likes or values, include it in the surprise, spend quality time together, and share each others interests. Do not hesitate to be cheesy and be like a young child. Give your partner an odd gift, a customized card, and select a theme song. Doing all of these keep the relationship powerful as you invest time, effort, and emotion from planning to carrying out your surprise.

If you find dullness in the relationship, due to routines then go ahead and break it. Invent a vacation where you two can share the time together and spend it celebrating your affection for one another. Change your personal routines and distribute special time for your partner.

Of course, the easier ways do still work. Hold your partners hand when he/she least expects it. Send a sweet text message while he/she is at work. Be like a child for a day and be vocal about your emotions. Increase your regular fast kiss and kiss more deeply.

Keeping the spice, the spark, the love and romance is a crucial side of the relationship. It helps you and your companion to grow together as you learn more things about each other, accept those things, and share in each others quirk. Make your relationship more thrilling by always choosing to relive the magnitude of your love and keenness every single day, begin taking her/him by surprise now.




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